Although still considered as a sexual taboo, many couples are slowly introducing the concept of anal sex into their sex either out of curiosity or to take their intimacy to another level. Having anal sex with your wife or partner should be a pleasurable experience and something that requires openness and exploration for both sides. Here are some tried and tested tips to have a pleasurable and memorable experience for first-time couples wanting to engage in anal sex. The very first tip would be to refrain from insisting on penetrating. Her first anal sex should be a pleasurable experience but there is actually no need for your finger, penis or even a dildo to have it inserted inside the rectus. And neither do you. Start with something simple like stroking or gently massaging the anus then proceed with other techniques like rimming, or licking the anus.
A lot of ladies admit that before they enjoyed the sensations of anal sex, it hurt a lot especially if it’s the first time. Part of the reason for such a painful experience is that there is tension, and sometimes stress, when they take your cock anally. A good advice would be to talk things over and that both sides should be relaxed and comfortable with the idea. Patience and communication is important. For example, letting her hold your penis and lead it slowly to her anus is a good idea to make her first anal sex very pleasing.
Good anal sex can also mean knowing the essential body parts related to the anus such as the sphincter muscles and how they would react when you insert your penis into your partner’s butt. It would be important to note that there are two sphincter muscles that are about an inch apart with one being external and the other being internal. How is this important? Suppose your partner is willing and ready to have anal sex, there is still a part in her that may resist doing the deed. This is her internal sphincter reacting in a reflexive way. Before having anal sex, make sure both her external and internal sphincter are relaxed enough to try other positions and techniques for her first anal sex.
At this point, the sensation of caressing the anus or rectum should be an enjoyable experience for both partners. However, if either of you is still feeling uncomfortable or feel some pain, then a good idea would be to perform other sexual techniques and deeds like penetrating or giving oral sex. A good tip when doing this would be to perform interchanging techniques. For instance, insert a dildo slowly at her anus while having vaginal intercourse then after ten minutes, make a switch by inserting the dildo on her vagina while gently stimulating her anus with your fingers. This should make you and her first anal sexgratifying and something both of you would want to do for a long time.
Hygiene and having a healthy diet is a must for first time couples wishing to engage in anal sex. Taking in foods rich in fiber such as green, leafy vegetables and fruits like pineapple allows regular bowel movements. This would also avoid having inflammatory bowel diseases that can occur during or after having anal sex so make it a habit to consume healthy food. As for hygiene, both sides should take sufficient amount of precaution while engaging in anal sex such as make sure there are no traces of any feces which may cause infection or diseases for the both of you as well as avoiding putting the penis or finger back to the vagina after performing oral sex.
There are just some of the few tips one can follow to make sure both you and her first anal sex experience is something memorable, pleasurable and exciting enough to spice up your sex life.
